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In 2014, Jennifer Laude, a 26-year-old Filipina woman, was brutally murdered after having sex with a U.S. marine. The marine in question, Joseph Scott Pemberton, strangled her until she was unconscious and then proceeded to drown her in a toilet bowl.

Understandably, this crime triggered a lot of outrage. But while some were outraged over the horrific nature of the crime, many others were outraged by a different detail in the story. That was because Jennifer Laude had done the unspeakable. She was a trans woman and had not disclosed that information before having sex with Pemberton. So in the minds of many cis people, her death was the price she paid for not disclosing her trans status. Here are some of the comments on CNN's Facebook page when the story broke.

As a trans person, I run into this attitude all the time. I constantly hear cis people raging about how a trans person is "lying" if they don't come out to a potential partner before dating them. Pemberton himself claimed that he felt like he was "raped" because Laude did not come out to him. Even cis people that fashion themselves as "allies" tend to feel similar.

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We can t predict the future for you, dude. Don t know if you d grow to love her enough that no penis wouldn t matter to you, or if it would be a deal breaker. But there s no guarantees in love, with anyone, so it s not like dating a cis man will totally prevent heartbreak years (or months or weeks) down the line. Personally I feel that life sucks most of the time, and anyone that doesn t squeeze every second of happiness out of it they can is a fool. You like her? Think she ll make you happy? Think you ll hav e great sex in the immediate future? Then keep seeing her. Maybe it won t work out, for any number of reasons, but that s always the case no matter who you date.

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Human sexuality is a very strange and complex thing. It’s also very fickle. People can’t help what they’re attracted to, and by that logic, it shouldn’t bother you that someone wouldn’t be attracted to trans.

If you’ve read "No, I Don’t Have To Tell You I’m Trans Before Dating You," then you’ve heard about the tragedy that is Jennifer Laude, a trans woman who was murdered after a man she hooked up with learned she was trans. Basically, she didn’t tell him she was trans before the deed, and when he found out he flipped out.

Informed consent means the person being asked for their consent knows exactly what they are consenting to. Even if the trans person isn’t the initiator, they have an obligation to disclose information that could negate the initiator's consent.

Officials in Chechnya are reportedly baiting closeted gay men in the remote mountain region via social networking apps for arrest and even death.

Here s an interview I did with my good friend Diamond Stylz about being a trans-attracted man. We talked a lot of issues and its an hour long. I hope this helps.

'All of a sudden they grabbed me again, pulled me to the floor. There were male officers removing my clothes on the floor'

A trans woman has won “substantial” damages after police stripped her and sprayed her in the face with mace, forcing her to wash her eyes out with toilet water. 

Avon and Somerset police agreed to offer an unknown payout to the woman, who has only been identified as Ms C, after admitting a series of failings while she was held in custody in October 2015. 

i think of it makes little or no sense.. yet love often would not. i m at present relationship a quickly guy, and that i m and FTM. I additionally be conscious of a lesbian who s engaged to a transman. For some people, trans people (like me) finally end up turning out to be to be a strange exception to their sexual orientation in one way or yet another. As a ordinary rule nevertheless, i might say that lesbians may be greater susceptible in the direction of MTFs than FTMs, because of the fact the consequence is greater such as what they actually like. it fairly is the LOGICAL way of issues, and that s what might desire to be assumed. yet different probability is, in reality, accessible.